Guest Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 I feel just like linda it makes me feel sexy and other things I just don't know how to place it,but I also starting to like more fem dom stuff like Miss T,So maybe Iam more in the middle ? MB Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allfurme Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 In my humble opinion men tend to be more fetishistic because women are more accepted in society. Most of the usual fetish items can be worn by women but men are generally precluded eg high heels, latex, fur, tights (panty-hose), stockings, lingerie. Mind you, referring to one fetish site, i guess no one would bat an eye-lid if i was to wear a pair of head-phones down the street. It's a shame that men didn't have fetishes for denim jeans or cotton shirts; it would make life a whole lot easier for them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 11, 2006 Share Posted September 11, 2006 denim and cotton? I feel sorry for kids now for the future. Imagine...some of them may grow up with a fetish (shudder) for trainers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted September 12, 2006 Share Posted September 12, 2006 Nothing wrong with Denim so long as it's lined with fur. I'll have one of those this winter. Sheared Pantom Beaver. Now that;s a Denim jacket. OFF Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrMockle Posted September 12, 2006 Share Posted September 12, 2006 Allfurme, Touch, I'm sure you'll find plenty of websites devoted to all sorts of clothing fetishes including denim and trainers if you really want to look. We all know that foot and footwear fetishes are quite common and some of the models I have worked with have posed for jeans-themed websites (although I presume those mostly focus on women wearing them than men). Whatever you are interested in or looking for, you'll probably find it or something very similar online! Regards, Mr Mockle Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MadisonAvenueFurPrincess Posted June 7, 2007 Share Posted June 7, 2007 There are MANY Ladies who are members of the Fur Den or who have passed through that are Fur Fetishists, many just dont want to get thier MALE counterparts OVERSTIMULATED or have been propositioned over the Internet and have disappeared. I am one, but I tend to be more along the Vintage Fashion Side in my discussion. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lynxette Posted June 10, 2007 Share Posted June 10, 2007 I was reading recently that about 10% of women never have an orgasm in their entire lives...a truly shocking number to me, but it lends itself to the conversation at hand. It may just be that many women are not self aware regarding what turns them on so to say. Once we find out however, look out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted June 11, 2007 Share Posted June 11, 2007 Still waters run deep; sometimes you can't get to the bottom of them. And some of the crashing rapids type waters...well you can actually wade across them. That'll be us men then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coleap2803 Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 I can tell a little story from when I was about 16 years old. Not that it is conclusive but it gives us an idea about the differences between men and women. And in this story also the differences between girls and boys. I was alone at home for a week because my mother was on holiday. I was with a friend. After dinner two girls we knew visited us at my home. One girl I got so far that she would make my bed. So I showed her my room and she pulled the bed away from the wall. And I totally forgot that I had a pornographic magazine underneath my bed. The girl was thirteen years old and I fellt really ashamed. She came straight with the quiestion why I could not use my fantasy instead of using such a magazine. I really felt embarresed even more and that moment is still very clear in my memory. My wife knows about my fur fetish and helps me to enjoy the fur when we make love. I have tried to find out if there is anything she likes me to wear or use, but also for her the fantasy is the thing that does the trick. So I guess women ar more focused on the fantasy and men are more focused on the visual side. Seeing and feeling. And indeed for a woman a furcoat is more like a natural thing to have, fashionwise. By the way this girl used to wear a furcoat, a short mink coat. That is another thing I never forgot about her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beth9029 Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 Everyone has a fetish now I'm a male 2 female crossdresser but women have turn on's and off's as much as men do. We're all human in nature but by the sex yes we're slightly different just men are not so incognito as are women. But hey women are pretty open about there life too sometimes just not as common because they have sex lives in reserve mostly. That's from my speculations now remember. But yeah not many women are open about fur because I think it's just not as common a phenomena as it is in men; or it's just not noticed by most women who wear furs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Worker 11811 Posted June 28, 2007 Share Posted June 28, 2007 I think the bar is set much lower for men. Women can wear fur and enjoy its sensual nature without being seen as "horny goats". A man who gets the slightest thrill out of tactile stimulation is seen as a pervert. As much as women seem to complain about being subject to a double standard, I think it's true that the sword has two sharp edges. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shelley and kevin Posted July 1, 2007 Share Posted July 1, 2007 Fur does not turn me on. Wearing fur and sexy lingerie makes me feel sexy (and with Kevin salivating, it makes me feel VERY sexy). When I feel sexy, then thoughts naturally turn towards sex, and I am then turned on. I'm sure there are a lot of women who would never dream of having sex while wearing their big fur coat, so when Kevin and I bring fur into the bedroom it definitely makes sex better. Not because of a fetish (for me anyways), but because it adds some spice to our love life. If wearing fur was taboo for ladies, only men could wear them, then I think you would find that this was a predominately female fur fetish group. We would be sneaking into your closets to cop a feel, or don your furs while you were out, and prance around in front of the mirror (not that we don't do that with our furs already) and fantasize about wearing your furs while making love. You guys are right that we are very lucky that we get to wear our furs, stilettos, lingerie, etc without anyone casting us as something less than "a real women". They are making alot more furs for men and we are seeing more men on TV in videos, etc. with fur, that in another decade (hopefully) you can wear your furs out in public without anyone casting doubt on your manhood. I will be very interested to see if men on this site find that their fetish evolves into something else, because some of their desires are being met on a different level. Kevin wears the furs he has had made for him (or ladies furs that have been "re-made" into a man's fur) out in public all winter long. He does not consider himself to have a fur fetish but I bet his feelings about fur would have developed into full blown, gotta have fur to have sex, fetish if I would have not fully accepted and embraced his love of fur and encouraged him to wear his furs out. Shelley Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
furgirl4u Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 I agree with Linda, furs are so posh and I adore the glamour so mmmm. ciao kisses Linda Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FurLoverinFL Posted October 27, 2007 Share Posted October 27, 2007 Nice to see another 'Linda' at the Den! Welcome! FLinFL Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
frugalfurguy Posted October 28, 2007 Share Posted October 28, 2007 Yes, welcome, Linda! And thanks for refreshing a favorite thread here in time for another season! frugalfurguy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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