FoxFurStory_35 Posted November 8 Share Posted November 8 Is your passion for luxurious furs something that you show or wear in public? Or is it a secret that only you or a few trusted people know? If you revealed it as secret, how did the person you told respond? If you show off your furs, how do people react? Looking forward to hearing varied responses. I’ll go first. My fur fetish was always a secret for me. I always felt shy about it. After a long term relationship fell through many years ago, I dealt with the sadness partly by online shopping. That was where I bought my first furs. First a full length coyote (which I sold later), a lynx dyed fox jacket, and a full length indigo fox fur. But they were kept secret. Then I met my now wife online. After many months of dating then moving in common law. I finally tested the waters to reveal my secret fetish to her. At first I told here there was something she could wear that I found irresistible. She was interested but didn’t push for the answer. After some time while intimate, I said I was ready to show her, told her to close her eyes and brought out a fur. As she held out her hand she responded that it felt nice and was very receptive. We mostly just talked about it at that point. I took us a little while to get comfortable with furs as an accessory. Years later, intimacy with furs is better than I ever imagined. But that’s another “story”… 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kev86 Posted November 8 Share Posted November 8 Oh this is a beautiful story and your wife know you about. This is a very good new. I think we had different attitude about the fur from our friends and family. Personally my fetishism for the fur is a secret for my family. My families are anti-fur. I buy my fur when I was student and so hard of had pleasure with it, my first fur was a mink jacket... Now I have friends and a couple of friends fetishist and passionate about fur, this is great of go walk, dinner, drink a coffee in our furs. I don't have partner for the moment but I hope one day find my partner who know my love for fur and want try too. During the beginning or I wear fur, I see their regards of peoples and the judgment by their comments, now I wear in public my fur and I'm proud of wear animals, I don't care about comments of animals lovers, PETA or other stupid people who don't have a intelligence for be respectful and respect my life... Take care of you friend. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FurSwede Posted November 8 Share Posted November 8 12 hours ago, FoxFurStory_35 said: Is your passion for luxurious furs something that you show or wear in public? Or is it a secret that only you or a few trusted people know? If you revealed it as secret, how did the person you told respond? If you show off your furs, how do people react? Looking forward to hearing varied responses. I do wear all my furs in public as soon as the temperature outside allows for it. That time is usually mid October here. I have no problem with wearing them to work and my coworkers don't make a big deal out of it, which is great of course. But in my youth I was more shy about it, which I guess is quite common. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kev86 Posted November 8 Share Posted November 8 51 minutes ago, FurSwede said: I do wear all my furs in public as soon as the temperature outside allows for it. That time is usually mid October here. I have no problem with wearing them to work and my coworkers don't make a big deal out of it, which is great of course. But in my youth I was more shy about it, which I guess is quite common. Oh this is a fabulous news, this is impossible for me of don't wear my fur on street for the pleasure... I think when we are more younger this is normal be shy but with the time we don't care about the judgment of people. Great of hear you enjoy your furs since three week. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panther10 Posted November 8 Share Posted November 8 I wear my furs in public and have been doing so since 2009. I treat my furs as just another winter coat. One that is far more luxurious and eye catching than your typical parka or puffer jacket sure, but synthetic jackets have done me wrong in past winter seasons and the days have only gotten colder since I first started wearing furs, so furs are absolutely necessary. Considering how cold the weather can get where I live, synthetics are the number one cause of hypothermia around here 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kev86 Posted November 9 Share Posted November 9 (edited) 18 hours ago, Panther10 said: I first started wearing furs, so furs are absolutely necessary. Considering how cold the weather can get where I live, synthetics are the number one cause of hypothermia around here Surely I shared your philosophy. Synthetics furs are horrible and this look so bad with any elegance... When we wear a beautiful fur coat made with soft mink or voluminous foxes from farms, we become just unique and we have a better feeling with the winter season, wear our furs give the softness, the warmer and a touch of glamor on the street... Edited November 9 by kev86 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Panther10 Posted November 9 Share Posted November 9 9 hours ago, kev86 said: Surely I shared your philosophy. Synthetics furs are horrible and this look so bad with any elegance... When we wear a beautiful fur coat made with soft dyed mink or voluminous dyed foxes, we become just unique and we have a better feeling with the winter season, wear our furs give the softness, the warmer and a touch of glamor on the street... I don’t even wear minks or dyed foxes. I tend to stick with natural foxes like blue fox, black, white, indigo and silver. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kev86 Posted November 9 Share Posted November 9 6 minutes ago, Panther10 said: I don’t even wear minks or dyed foxes. I tend to stick with natural foxes like blue fox, black, white, indigo and silver. I don't correctly sorry, when I talk about minks or foxes, I talk only from farm, foxes from Finland... you are a real foxes lovers, I appreciate blue foxes and polar foxes... So nice of see you enjoying your foxes... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
picarenne Posted November 10 Share Posted November 10 Hello ! For my part, I've mostly kept it secret. But I started wearing a fox fur collar with my normal jacket last winter, and got very few comments about it. Some people called me "viking", since I moved to Sweden; and a friend felt it with her hands, and told me it wasn't as soft as she had thought... 🙄 I think an ex-girlfriend noticed my "interest" for fur, as my long sheared beaver coat was hanging out, and made a comment that it could be "sexy"; but we broke up soon after. I wore that same coat on a winter walk with a friend, who called me a teddy bear but made no other comments. I've not yet dared to wear it at work or with other friends/girlfriends, but I usually ride my bicycle, so the occasions would be rare anyway... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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kev86 Posted November 10 Share Posted November 10 I know the difficult for wear fur on public but I think for much peoples this is difficult of forget the judgment of peoples... After we have also positive attitude and positive reaction from peoples... Peoples don't understand why we love wear furs and why we love this feeling. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom1698431614 Posted November 11 Share Posted November 11 I‘ve worn my furs in public for a long time. I do get negative comments but very, very rarely. Far more often I get positive reactions. I‘d say it‘s 50 to 1 positive vs. negative. I think it IS important HOW you wear your furs. Be confident, wear it with pride and seek eye contact to passers-by while greeting them. It‘s that simple. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kev86 Posted November 11 Share Posted November 11 Hey Tom, Yes, I'm totally agree with you. Surely a good attitude is important, peoples are cool if we have a smile and wear it with a chilling mood... Less indiscretion to you, where are you from Tom ? This morning I go to the market and walk around the street with my mink coat on my shoulder... I appreciate the positive comments from a beautiful lady with this mink on theirs shoulders... So lovely to hear orders ladies talking about the fur... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom1698431614 Posted November 11 Share Posted November 11 Munich/Germany. Unfortunately it is no longer real winter over here. I go to northern Finland each February so that I can enjoy my furs in the cold area. See my separate thread. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a_man_of_many_foxes Posted November 11 Share Posted November 11 I tend to err on the side of being more moderate. I do love an oversized fox fur coat, but it’s just not really my style. I tend to wear slim fitting mink furs that aren’t too eye catching. I prefer the subtle approach, but absolutely love seeing others go over the top! I did just purchase a new fox fur coat so we’ll see if it makes a public appearance this year. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kev86 Posted November 11 Share Posted November 11 1 hour ago, Tom1698431614 said: Munich/Germany. Unfortunately it is no longer real winter over here. I go to northern Finland each February so that I can enjoy my furs in the cold area. See my separate thread. A nice country honestly, I visit Germany each August during three week with friends (We drive on the Nürbürgring). I think in France I have the same problem, winter during 4 months but with don't have really their temperatures for enjoy the fur... Your idea is just amazing and when I watch your profile picture, I know immediately the pleasure of wear fur on this beautiful country and natural... Honestly you give me idea for the next winter... I love your oversize fox fur coat, a masterpiece of softness... Never you imagine meet fur friends in Finland during your holidays ? Thanks Tom... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kev86 Posted November 11 Share Posted November 11 1 hour ago, a_man_of_many_foxes said: I tend to err on the side of being more moderate. I do love an oversized fox fur coat, but it’s just not really my style. I tend to wear slim fitting mink furs that aren’t too eye catching. I prefer the subtle approach, but absolutely love seeing others go over the top! I did just purchase a new fox fur coat so we’ll see if it makes a public appearance this year. Honestly I think this is not the style of furs pieces who modify the attitude of people. Wear a slim fitting mink or a oversize piece of foxes full pelts or a fox fur who give you discretion, if people appreciate fur or respect your idea this is positive but if you meet a PETA member or a anti-fur, surely the reaction of this person are bad and you don't appreciate the moment... Honestly wear any piece of furs and enjoy it with the smile and proudest... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tom1698431614 Posted November 11 Share Posted November 11 I sent you the announcement for the fur meeting in Finland by PM. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kev86 Posted November 11 Share Posted November 11 7 minutes ago, Tom1698431614 said: I sent you the announcement for the fur meeting in Finland by PM. Yeah I read this. Thank you so much Tom. Take care of you fur friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tashi Posted November 17 Share Posted November 17 NW US near the Columbia River here & I am Native American, it gets quite cold here and we had major icestorms/blizzards last few years. Been wearing buffalo, wolverine or bear coats at such times. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WinnipegFur Posted November 17 Share Posted November 17 Being younger always more shy, the "whats someone going to say" syndrome, or the worry someone is going to say something about wearing a woman's fur coat because of the way the clasps do up... used to go through this all the time when I was younger... always wore Mom's huge raccoon coat and hat, and still do as its mine now... But I remember driving her to work and then going to the park after and trying to find the most secluded places to walk for fear of crossing paths with anyone... For the most part now, I just park right in the main park parking lot, hop out and start going for my walk.. You get the rare occasional stare from someone, but 99% of the the time, if you cross paths with someone they usually say Hello and carry on their way... I still regret when I was younger at the park there was always an older woman (older than me anyways) that walked around in red fox jacket and hat... we never directly crossed paths but we always looked at one another from the distance.. I knew where she parked her car, but I was always too scared to park beside her because she parked where all the park workers parked.. There is a girl I am really good friends with, she doesnt know about my furs, but she often jokes about how we should be married.. I made the comment once to see her reaction about getting her a ring and a fur coat.. she said she'd keep the ring but didnt want the coat haha 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minkme Posted November 18 Share Posted November 18 Take her out on a date and bring your Mom's coat. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
furrybob Posted November 24 Share Posted November 24 Hi, I came out in December 2015, whilst wearing my reverable MINK jacket. I used to wear it leather side out, but on that day, as I had reversed it to MINK, I decided thatit was stupid to reverse it back to leather, so I didnt. From that day I have bought 11 coats (various MINK, FOXES, etc) and wear one of them every day. I also compliment this by wering a Fur scarf, FUR gloves, and a Fur hat. In addition I often try to wear additional FUR's eg a MINK gilet, extra scarf etc. My max. total has been wearing 9 FURs. My (full) FUR season is from 1st September to 31st May, but even during the summer I'll wear a jacket that has a FUR collar, and if it's a bit chilly I will accesorise with extra FUR eg a MINK scarf. Bob 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FullLengthFox Posted November 25 Share Posted November 25 I have worn my fur parka in public last week for the first time, it's a women's model but I look good in it, and it is such a pleasure to wear! No comments or even looks so far, so I can only encourage you all to wear your furs. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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