Does Anyone Else Dislike Men in Furs? Fetishist perspectives

[Prowl]

To be clear, this is in the realm of my personal taste of sexual preference and attractiveness. If you are a man who wears fur, all power to you, this is not a critique of anyone's real-life fashion sense. 

Anyways, does anyone else feel men wearing fur in pornography or fetish content is very much a turn off? For me, I love when a woman wears fur, and see it as a symbol of dominance, glamour, and sex appeal. I however do not like when the man counterpart is wearing fur, bound in fur, or even really touching the fur- i'm not a fan of the "fur-job" or cumming in fur.

 

To me the fur is an extension of the woman's beauty and cruelty and I do not like seeing that power "undermined" in this way by the man interacting with the fur. In my fetish preference, the man is "not worthy". I saw a graph one time of "levels of fetish". In one situation, you can't be turned on by a woman without the fetish object, in a more extreme fetish you can be turned on by the fetish object without a woman. For me, the fur and woman must be together, I'm attracted to woman without fur and the fur just adds to it. 

 

This is a very specific point of view of what I prefer, and I wonder if anyone else feels similarly or differently. I'm interested in peoples thoughts. 

[blakeymikey]

No think u might be one of just a few. Men in fur women in fur there all the same. 

[Jerome]

I kind of share this opinion. Furs for men don't turn me on. I love women in their furs but, as a man, I also like to wrap myself in female style furs.

[IanBru]

1 hour ago, Prowl said:

To be clear, this is in the realm of my personal taste of sexual preference and attractiveness. If you are a man who wears fur, all power to you, this is not a critique of anyone's real-life fashion sense. 

I agree with this completely. Nothing turns me on more than my wife in furs, but I’ve never really had the desire to wear them myself, and the idea of men in furs does nothing for me. Just means I can spend more on my wife!

Edited Monday at 06:59 PM by IanBru

[FurSwede]

I’m sure you will find people all over the spectrum of loving fur here. The important thing is to show each other respect as you say in the beginning. 

[syfr]

Myself, I'm in the middle of the spectrum.

I love how you put it - "fur is an extension of the woman's beauty and cruelty". I would much rather see only a woman (or women) in furs. I want to behold her beauty and power and not be distracted by anything else. Seeing another man in the scene is a turn-off for me.

In some situations, I will tolerate seeing another guy. Depends on the 'look' of the man. Perhaps the man is well dressed and on the same level of power as the woman. Or, the man's face cannot be seen and is completely submissive to the woman - just a faceless prop or toy to her. 

The double standard I have is that I like to wear furs myself and would love to dominate in furs with a fur-clad dominant woman haha 😅

[Jerome]

I am reading all this while wrapped in a beautiful phantom beaver coat. I love it, but I agree, nothing is more beautiful than a woman in a nice fur coat.

[saynotofaux]

It all depends, some furs are feminine and suit the feminine form, silver fox, lynx, sable etc, and some furs like beaver & coyote are more masculine. The cut of the coat too. A bloke wearing what is obviously a ladies coat does nothing for me. But in general, men wearing fur, no. Unless it’s a gent’s style. Black mink, my favourite fur, can look good on either sex, but that’s kind of an exception to the rule. 

[paul2809]

Both in furs are fine for me....

[blakeymikey]

Anyone can wear fur. Anyone can look good in fur also. Fur isn't just for women and never will be.