dongleboy Posted December 30, 2024 Share Posted December 30, 2024 (edited) This is an experience from my 20’s that I filed away at the time and have never really re-visited. I was in the city centre on a Sunday lunchtime and had popped into the large branch of Marks and Spencer to pick up a sandwich. (Marks and Spencer, (M&S), is a up market British chain store that sells both clothes and very good food). This is in the days before autotills when one had to queue to pay for one’s items. In front of me was an elderly woman who was wearing a black ankle length mink coat that was very full at the back and swung when she moved. She had obviously bought more than she had intended as she had two very full bags of both clothes and food. After she had completed her shopping I found myself quickly paying for my two items and catching up with her. I could tell that she was struggling so it was the perfect opportunity to offer assistance. She accepted my offer and told me she was only going to the taxi rank which was on the next block. We chatted away and I learnt that she was a widow whose husband had died the year before. It didn’t take us long to get to the taxi rank but there were no taxis to be had so I waited with her. She lit a cigarette and I told her that I loved her coat and she snuggled into it and said it was incredibly warm. At this point I did something so out of character I couldn’t believe I was doing it but I asked if I could cuddle her! She looked surprised but said yes and we spent a couple of minutes just holding each other very tightly. It was rather disappointing when a taxi appeared and we had no choice but to break apart. Before she got in the taxi I was able to say that I would be at M&S at the same time next Sunday. She smiled at me and was gone. The following Sunday I was at M&S and saw her standing waiting for me wearing her mink coat . We went for coffee and spoke to each other for over an hour. She said it was a regular habit for her to go to church and then get a taxi to M&S for shopping and then a taxi home. However, this Sunday she had come to M&S just to meet me. We both knew that a relationship was unrealistic but we both loved walking arm in arm and finding a place for a cuddle. At one point we both had our hands on each other’s bottoms! My absolute favourite thing was to stand behind her and cuddle her whilst she smoked. She would have two cigarettes and then she’d turn round and we’d cuddle each other very tightly. Sometimes, we’d go to the cinema and she’d put her coat over us both and we’d snuggle into each other. I can’t remember how our relationship ended but it was lovely whilst it lasted. Edited December 30, 2024 by dongleboy 9 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kidnapped Posted December 30, 2024 Share Posted December 30, 2024 Thank you for sharing this memory. It was a wonderful read and I greatly enjoyed it. I wish I had been this open and this brave to follow my passions in my 20's. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minkme Posted December 31, 2024 Share Posted December 31, 2024 dongleboy. Hey buddy, great story. Another older women hey? Cuddling from behind ? and under her coat at the cinema? How did you control yourself? There was two occasions I can think of where I complemented ladies wearing mink coats. One was at a wedding. There was an older lady wearing her mink coat leaving a wedding that i was at. I went outside for air. I complemented about her coat. She thank me and said it from her late husband.. At another party, this lady. also wearing a mink coat went outside to smoke. It was raining and I was outside at an alcove when she came out to smoke. I complemented the coat she had. She too thanked me and said it was given to her from her mother in law. This lady rode to the party wearing the mink coat accompanied by her father in law in a convertible sports car right before it started to rain. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dongleboy Posted December 31, 2024 Author Share Posted December 31, 2024 Hi Minkme. Yes, I’ve always had a bit of a thing for older women wearing fur! 😊. It was that relationship that gave me the confidence for another encounter…😉 Actually, I’ve never hesitated to speak to women wearing fur in public. Encounters have ranged from very brief ‘Thanks’ to long conversations and the very occasional coffee. All women love to be complimented on their appearance and being told they look wonderful whilst wearing fur is bound to elicit a positive response. Actually, there was a few details about our cinema trips I’d left out! On one occasion, we were in a ‘couples seat’ at the cinema cuddling under her mink and I was quite excited by the mink and the smell of her perfume and cigarette smoke. She undid my flies and gave me an extremely expert hand job! I came into the silk lining of her coat, later on finding it was quite a stain! She told me she wanted a little bit of me on her coat to carry around with her. I remember that she was always wearing beautiful clothes and she wiped her hand on her gorgeous silk scarf of which she seemed to have an unlimited supply. The other thing I remember was me teasing her after our cinema trips. I’d carry her coat over my arm but I wouldn’t hold it for her to put on until we were well outside. She desperately wanted her coat to keep warm but also because her cigarettes and lighter were in the pocket. After an extremely brief time of her being cold I’d hold the mink for her and she would snuggle into it and I’d cuddle her from behind as she lit a cigarette and smoked. On one occasion, I got her to smoke three cigarettes whilst I cuddled her on her belly. I encouraged her to wear a silk scarf under her coat and a white cashmere scarf to hold the coat’s collar up to give her maximum warmth. On that occasion, I remember stroking her tummy area and she started to moan between pulling on her cigarette. She’d had gynaecological problems which meant she couldn’t make love but we did everything else! And all because of an overfilled shopping bag! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minkme Posted December 31, 2024 Share Posted December 31, 2024 Well, I must say, you helped her out in the time of need ( groceries) and she paid you well. When you said you cuddled together at the cinema, sharing her mink coat, I wondered what was going on under the coat? You left your mark and She wanted you to. wow. No need to go to the Drive In. Weekly shopping and movies? Sounds like fun. She must have figured out you had a fur fetish? You hit if off for awhile?. Very nice. I never had such luck. I headed to Denver where temperatures will be in the 20s-30s. I think I will hang out at the grocery store, Thanks for sharing. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kev86 Posted December 31, 2024 Share Posted December 31, 2024 This is a beautiful story, I find this relationship really cute... This lady had a great luck of meet you, always a pleasure to meet and talk with a lady who wear a fabulous mink full length... Personally I love talk with older lady who wear fur or who appreciate it, this is fabulous to hear the nostalgic and glorious period of the fur... One day i talked with a lady who had two astrakhan coats, one black and second with blond mink collar, she explain me the story of this blond mink collar. Honestly I love it see the happiness when we talk about fur and I directly understand this older lady don't care about animals, she joke with any pity... I love complimenting ladies wrapped in her fur but i find so special to complimenting a older lady... i miss older lady wrapped in fur the street... I miss this period... 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jerome Posted December 31, 2024 Share Posted December 31, 2024 Complimenting women for their fur coat is wonderful and they love it. I wished I had done it more often. Jérôme 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minkme Posted December 31, 2024 Share Posted December 31, 2024 4 hours ago, Jerome said: Complimenting women for their fur coat is wonderful and they love it. I wished I had done it more often. Jérôme same here, I wish I would have done more complementing during those days where ladies would often wear fur to places. 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paul2809 Posted December 31, 2024 Share Posted December 31, 2024 Wonderful story.. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dongleboy Posted January 3 Author Share Posted January 3 (edited) I found an old diary and gleaned the following information about that lovely experience. Her name was Joy and she was 5’ 6” with corn blue eyes and blonde hair which she kept beautifully in a bob. She was slightly plump which made her gorgeous to hold. She was rather pretty. Oddly enough, in the first couple of weeks of our relationship we didn’t kiss which was strange as she had a lovely mouth with very even teeth. We would have the occasional peck on the cheek after we’d been cuddling although I absolutely adored pushing her blonde hair back from her face and stroking both her face and her blonde hair. ( I never referred to her hair - always her blond hair). For instance, I’d ask when she was going to the hairdresser to have her blonde hair done. There was perhaps a bit of miscommunication between us to begin with. I thought she wouldn’t want to kiss due to her being so much older than me, ( she was 58 and I was 22) and she thought I wouldn’t want to kiss because she smoked. Well, eventually our relationship became so intense that I started kissing her and expected to be rebuffed but instead she opened her mouth and gave me a lot of tongue. It was absolutely beautiful and her mouth was incredibly soft. Yes, I could taste that she smoked but it just seemed to add a flavour to her mouth. What she didn’t realise at the beginning was that I loved watching her smoke. Joy had a slightly innocent air about her and watching her light a Marlboro Red with her gold lighter and pull on it very deeply was, for me, incredibly erotic. She told me she adored smoking and she had absolutely no intention of giving up. Watching her pull on her Marlboro and then snuggle into her mink got me extremely turned on! It became a bit of a thing for us. We’d be out walking arm in arm and I’d say why don’t we find a bench and you can have a cigarette and a cuddle?! Joy had recently been treated for a gynaecological condition so we weren’t able to make love until her surgery had healed but she told me that she got very wet when we kissed and cuddled. She told me that her best friend had remarked that she seemed to have gone from looking tired all the time to positively glowing! I suspect that the fact that we couldn’t make love enhanced our time together since we literally couldn’t keep our hands off each other. Her beautiful mink coat was a Blackglama and it had been made specially for her. She knew I loved it and wore it for all our encounters. It hung on her in great folds and I found it very erotic when she wore it over her shoulders. Edited January 3 by dongleboy 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kev86 Posted January 4 Share Posted January 4 Oh this is a beautiful story, surely this relationship was full of passion... I think when we are a younger boy, we find the perfect relationship with a older lady, we learn the elegance, the experience and more... We are always happy to have a beautiful feeling of security when we walk with a older lady especially if she is wrapped in a fur coat, the moment is so special and unique, we don't want miss this beautiful experience... Now i understand the sad reality, much ladies stopping the fur. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WinnipegFur Posted January 4 Share Posted January 4 Amazing story... I remember going for walks in the park when I was in my early 20s... either wearing full length coyote or raccoon.. there was always an older lady also walking in a red fox jacket and hat... We often crossed paths at a distance and always watched one another....I was always too scared to cross paths with her...I always knew where she parked, but never had the courage to park beside her... it wasnt her I was worried about , Im sure her wearing fur and me wearing fur would have been no problem... what always scared me was being shy at that age wearinf fur, she always parked at the lot where all the park workers were...was always scared how they (guys) would react to a young guy in the early 90s wearing a fur coat... often wish I could just rewind the years, go back now knowing no one really cares or cared.... 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kev86 Posted January 4 Share Posted January 4 I understand that, this is not really easy to wear fur when we are in this age. Always a beautiful experience to walk around the park and watch beautiful older ladies wrapped in different furs and especially only real furs... When we are younger, we have a great smile and opportunity to meet older ladies wrapped in fur, we are in our innocence period... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shyfurwriter Posted January 6 Share Posted January 6 Having been a fur lover for as long as I can remember there was always an older woman wearing furs! many pleasant encounters over the years. one of my favorites occurred when I noticed two very stylish older ladies wearing full length fur coats, one crystal fox the other Finnish raccoon (worn over her shoulders.) I had the pleasure of talking to them for a few moments after I lit their cigarettes. When I complimented them on their coats the lady in the raccoon was most alluring as she reached for her sleeve as to offer me a touch. Her attitude and sweet charms began to arouse me. Embarrassed , I began to blush. She then said "Poor dear you must be freezing!" The lady in fox replied, "Oh I think he's warm enough." Time stood still as I wondered if they noticed. I was relieved when she followed with "He's blushing" 3 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dongleboy Posted January 6 Author Share Posted January 6 My relationship with Joy was a turning point in my relationship with the fairer sex. I’d had a couple of ‘normal’ relationships inasmuch as they were girls of my own age but, frankly, I found I got bored with their attitude of being god’s gift to man. Older women by and large were much more in control of what they wanted and tended to be drama free. And so I got a reputation for dating older women. I wasn’t shy about approaching them - especially if they wore fur and I had some very interesting experiences by the time I hit 30. Happy days. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kev86 Posted January 6 Share Posted January 6 (edited) I'm agree with you, a young girl don't have the experience of life and don't have the same education, older lady appreciate the elegance, education and the romantism, all in the attitude... Much older ladies wrapped in fur understood the potential of seduction. A younger boy appreciate the sweet perfume, the glamor of a fur coat and the song of beautiful pairs of heels or high boots... I prefer talk with older ladies, I find this moments more simple, more elegant and so interesting to talk about a varieties of things. I think much older ladies understand why we love furs and she find a real positive attraction... Honestly this is more easily to talk with older ladies about furs and older ladies don't are horrified when we talk of animals... One day a older lady with who i talk often about a varieties of ideas and also about the fur, she talk me with the smile and sarcasm : "we don't kill this animals a second time hahaha". I find this remarks so beautiful and elegant from older ladies who wear fur proudly... Edited January 6 by kev86 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WilliamFur Posted January 6 Share Posted January 6 When growing up I loved to be hugged by women in their fur coats . That is what helped to make me a fur lover . 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kev86 Posted January 6 Share Posted January 6 Yeah, i understand perfectly. Ladies and older ladies helped our younger soul to become more relaxed. When we have the company of older ladies wrapped in fur, we find the facility for explain our passion for fur and we are happy be understood less any judgment... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pnwhist Posted January 7 Share Posted January 7 7 hours ago, WilliamFur said: When growing up I loved to be hugged by women in their fur coats . That is what helped to make me a fur lover . Man, as obsessed as I am with fur now - I was actually never hugged by an older women wearing it… I think that would have driven me over the cliff of uber-obsession! 🙂 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WilliamFur Posted January 7 Share Posted January 7 Puberty kicking in then . Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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