ryanshy Posted December 2, 2017 Share Posted December 2, 2017 Does anyone have any experience or advice? Recently i got my first baby, only my wife knows my passion about fur before. And we have a huge fur collection at home. I really don't know when he turns to his 5-6 years old, if he finds there're so many furs at home, what he will think about this and what could i do in this case. I raised my fur hobby then fetish since my childhood but not from my parents. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
I Just Love Fur Posted December 2, 2017 Share Posted December 2, 2017 Easy. Don't tell them. Let them see a normal, healthy, stable set of adults that just happen to own furs. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fox Posted December 2, 2017 Share Posted December 2, 2017 ^^^ This. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RonGav Posted December 2, 2017 Share Posted December 2, 2017 I think to just use your furs as innocently as you can, not hiding them and let the child grow up in a home where furs are commonplace Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
greg Posted December 3, 2017 Share Posted December 3, 2017 We had always alot of furs in the house... Sometimes children were hiding and were in the closets too. We had 20+ different children in the house and almost all came across of furs at some point. Their reaction was normally: Oh soft... stroke and continue with their play... Our kid never asked anything because furs are here as long as he can remember... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Love for fur Posted December 4, 2017 Share Posted December 4, 2017 I recently listened to a podcast regarding the fur fashion of Fendi, and they also talked to an professor in ethics and moral and she was speaking to her baby about using other animals skin Just don't let them know its sexual. Nobody wants to see their parents sexual side. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lynxette Posted December 4, 2017 Share Posted December 4, 2017 I agree, no reason to tell them all the details of any aspect of your personal sex life. There are many wonderful reasons to wear and enjoy furs as a family without that aspect at all. A child raised with furs all around will simply consider it normal, which is a good thing of course. My children will have the same thing to look forward to someday, God willing. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RonGav Posted December 7, 2017 Share Posted December 7, 2017 Absolutely true, Lynxette. Just make it part of your everyday life experience. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dongleboy Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 One of the loveliest things I ever saw was when I was teenager. I was meeting a friend in the city centre where there's a large and famous gardens below a castle. As I waited, I noticed an obviously well heeled family walking at a leisurely pace from my vantage point about 30 feet up. The family consisted of a husband wearing a camel haired coat, his wife who was wearing an ankle length mink coat and was of a real 'wrap around' style. There were three children, all very well dressed whose age ranged from maybe 12 to 5. A boy, a girl and another boy. The family stopped and some discussion seemed to be going on. The result seemed to be that the husband and two older children would go on ahead leaving the mother with her little boy. The mother sat on a bench with the little boy beside her and he cuddled into her whereupon she unfastened her mink and pulled him under the coat. I'll never forget the look on his face! I'm sure he became a fur lover for life. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RonGav Posted December 15, 2017 Share Posted December 15, 2017 You're absolutely right. I seem to recall something similar happening to me when I was really young.. or maybe it is now just a fantasy wish, but the result was as you predicted -- a fur lover for life. Blessed are the Mom's that share their furs...! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lynxette Posted December 18, 2017 Share Posted December 18, 2017 When I was in Stockholm a few years ago, I saw something quite similar, although the woman was wrapped in sable. Wow! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
furfetist Posted December 11 Share Posted December 11 On 12/18/2017 at 5:54 PM, lynxette said: Toen ik een paar jaar geleden in Stockholm was, zag ik iets soortgelijks, hoewel de vrouw in sabel was gewikkeld. Wauw! On 12/18/2017 at 5:54 PM, lynxette said: When I was in Stockholm a few years ago, I saw something quite similar, although the woman was wrapped in sable. Wow! I think I go tell normal the reason and truth when your child will understand it. I like also my child like also faux fur or real to wear or like to give her also soft stuff to wear and also my wife. Totally a family of fur. Enjoy fur and be fair about it. Dont adshame you for it. Enjoy your love for fur and enjoy from your fetish and use your fur also in your sexlife... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ChicagoFurFan Posted December 11 Share Posted December 11 Granted I’m on the younger side and not a father or anything, but I feel like just acting like it’s normal would be okay. While it’s not super common and can have a stigma around it, fur is very much still a major component of global fashion and decor and raising a son to see it as such doesn’t seem unethical in the slightest. He’ll likely put it together when he’s much older, though I’m sure that’s a conversation neither of you would want to have at that point, LOL 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ozfurlova Posted December 13 Share Posted December 13 Let me talk from a point of experience: don’t say a thing and they’ll never notice My teenager son knows full well about the 10 furs which hang in the spare room closet and even though we don’t have a climate that would come close to needing that volume of furs, he couldn’t care less Now if those furs were Xboxes or PlayStations instead, then we’d have a totally different dilemma on our hands 😎 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
a_man_of_many_foxes Posted December 13 Share Posted December 13 Yeah, I don’t think I’ll ever tell my children about my fur fetish. I think it’s fine to wear furs normally around them, but in no way is that a conversation that needs to be had. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Prowl Posted December 17 Share Posted December 17 Obviously do not involve your children or any child in your sexual fetishes. WTF? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blakeymikey Posted December 18 Share Posted December 18 On 12/17/2024 at 1:33 PM, Prowl said: Obviously do not involve your children or any child in your sexual fetishes. WTF? I dont think that was the meaning of this post. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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