Debrotica Posted August 11, 2021 Share Posted August 11, 2021 Just wondering if I am the only female on here that actually loves wearing fur and is not ashamed too admit it 😁❤ 6 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fur dale Posted August 11, 2021 Share Posted August 11, 2021 So glad I came across you . Any more females in this that love fur ? 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
furnz Posted August 11, 2021 Share Posted August 11, 2021 Yes🥰, and right now it's winter in New Zealand 😘 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordTheNightKnight Posted August 11, 2021 Share Posted August 11, 2021 I'm a man, but I won't be one of those weirdos asking for pics. I will instead say I'm happy to see you all here! 😃 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bunnyboy Posted August 12, 2021 Share Posted August 12, 2021 also here happy to see other fur lovers haven't been on the site in a while it has changed a lot Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debrotica Posted August 12, 2021 Author Share Posted August 12, 2021 19 hours ago, Fur dale said: So glad I came across you . Any more females in this that love fur ? Came across me ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mandarijntje Posted August 12, 2021 Share Posted August 12, 2021 Hi there, I’m also a woman (43) from Holland, both my boyfriend and me adore fur. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fur dale Posted August 12, 2021 Share Posted August 12, 2021 5 hours ago, Debrotica said: Came across me ? Yes 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fur dale Posted August 12, 2021 Share Posted August 12, 2021 2 hours ago, mandarijntje said: Hi there, I’m also a woman (43) from Holland, both my boyfriend and me adore fur. Hi there hope you well . How many furs you got 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blakeymikey Posted August 12, 2021 Share Posted August 12, 2021 Good to see you on here. I find it hard sometimes to work out who is who sometimes. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debrotica Posted August 13, 2021 Author Share Posted August 13, 2021 11 hours ago, Fur dale said: Yes I'm flattered ☺ 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fur dale Posted August 13, 2021 Share Posted August 13, 2021 No worries 😉 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fox Posted August 13, 2021 Share Posted August 13, 2021 Get ready for the flood of messages & DMs from the sausage fest that is this community. 🙄 2 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
minkme Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 Hopefully you don't get a flood of messages so that you can enjoy the forum. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debrotica Posted August 14, 2021 Author Share Posted August 14, 2021 13 hours ago, Fox said: Get ready for the flood of messages & DMs from the sausage fest that is this community. 🙄 Already started , I don't really know why when a women joins and posts pics , that it seems like an open invite to send me DM's Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debrotica Posted August 14, 2021 Author Share Posted August 14, 2021 5 hours ago, minkme said: Hopefully you don't get a flood of messages so that you can enjoy the forum. Too late, already started, I don't know why when a woman posts pics that it seems to be an open invite to start sending me private messages 😒 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordTheNightKnight Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 Of fucking course. Just because it's a private message doesn't mean manners are okay to ignore. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zaphod_bee Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 @Debrotica: it's unfortunate, but men are way more than women in the fur fetish area. Therefore women are overrun... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debrotica Posted August 14, 2021 Author Share Posted August 14, 2021 10 minutes ago, Zaphod_bee said: @Debrotica: it's unfortunate, but men are way more than women in the fur fetish area. Therefore women are overrun... I completely understand , but still doesn't make it a so called open season so too speak 🙄 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ozfurlova Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 (edited) 1 hour ago, Debrotica said: I completely understand , but still doesn't make it a so called open season so too speak 🙄 Unfortunate way of the internet that men feel it totally acceptable to resort to Neanderthal behaviour whenever a woman makes herself known in the forum. Sort of the same thing when you throw a chip or french fry into a gaggle of seagulls and they all lose their mind over it. Sadly, people don't know how to behave and it's a very disappointing and real reason why women seldom make themselves known here. Would so love to be proved wrong on this though.... Edited August 14, 2021 by ozfurlova 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Zaphod_bee Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 5 hours ago, Debrotica said: I completely understand , but still doesn't make it a so called open season so too speak 🙄 I am with you, but that ratio makes it totally clear: if only a certain percentage of the majority answers this ( and is too explicite) this is a high number - and for you it must be really offensive... 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debrotica Posted August 14, 2021 Author Share Posted August 14, 2021 32 minutes ago, Zaphod_bee said: I am with you, but that ratio makes it totally clear: if only a certain percentage of the majority answers this ( and is too explicite) this is a high number - and for you it must be really offensive... Just a little off putting , as I know men have a fantasy about fur , and as I like fur as well , then I thought I'd share the same passion Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LordTheNightKnight Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 7 hours ago, Zaphod_bee said: @Debrotica: it's unfortunate, but men are way more than women in the fur fetish area. Therefore women are overrun... I think it's more this notion that we don't teach men to behave themselves around women in certain places. Unless all the women are explicitly spoken for, and even then that's not a guarantee, a lot of men think it's okay to just come up to a woman and treat her like something there just for their gratification. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Furever Heidi Posted August 14, 2021 Share Posted August 14, 2021 This isn't a new problem. I remember bringing up the issue when Neojaguar first took over the site and I'm sure it existed well before that. It's never been successfully tacked by the Admins, I suspect in some part that's because they've all been male themselves and don't appreciate how distressing being the recipient of this form of behaviour is. I'm sad to say but this place is sinking to the same levels as FFG. http://www.thefurden.com/index.php?/forums/topic/6567-the-im-tool/&do=findComment&comment=47957 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ShortsightedFarseer Posted August 15, 2021 Share Posted August 15, 2021 I'm not familiar with inner workings and coding of the website, but maybe an option to either turn off the Inbox entirely or just incoming messages? That way, a person can choose if they want to both send and receive private messages, or just send them themselves. If a person fears the potential flux of thirst messages, they could simply close the valve on the input and contact only the people they choose themselves. But, again, I don't know if that's even an option... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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