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[LordTheNightKnight]

Messages can be reported, in case anyone didn't know. It's in the drop menu when you click the row of dots in the upper right corner of the text.

Just hope the mods don't ignore the reports.

[Furever Heidi]

38 minutes ago, LordTheNightKnight said:

 

Just hope the mods don't ignore the reports.

what mod's are those?  the one we have is waste of electrons.

[punisherthunder]

On 8/15/2021 at 6:32 PM, Furever Heidi said:

what mod's are those?  the one we have is waste of electrons.

It's funny you mention that. 

 

Sometime in 2014-2015, I was assigned as a moderator for our chat room because I spent a lot of time in there hanging out.  The webmaster, John, thought I dispatched troublemakers with authority, so he asked me to be a moderator.  I accepted.   What I didn't know, was that John was terminally ill with cancer.  I still have the PM in my inbox where he last spoke of his cancer had become so aggressive that the doctors were giving him a week or two at best.  I replied with my compassion and sympathies......John never replied.  He simply passed away. 

 

I was stuck in a constant flux of receiving spam/harassment reports, and I would handle those as best I could.  At some point there in 2016, Neo was appointed moderator because he had a lot of technical, HTML skills among many other talents.  He asked me to hang around, so I did.  Neo put in a lot of hard work into redesigning the website, almost as it stands today, albeit some tweaks here and there.  During this time, FFG had crashed and there was an influx of demanding types.  People who didn't necessarily like having rules or moderators hanging around.  Neo confessed to me about receiving an onslaught of negative hate mails and messages 24/7; complaints just left and right.  For his own personal reasons, he relinquished the site and it was taken over by Neoncossak.

 

I have never met Neoncossak in any capacity.   I do not know who he or she is, where they are from; simply nothing.  I have sent countless messages the past couple years, just over and over and over and over again, trying to get them to reply to any of them in the slightest.   Neoncossak has never ever once replied to a single message.....ever.   Aside from the site staying online, I have no idea how it runs.  I don't know anything financial or techical about it.  It merely just exists.   Not by any choice, by proxy of all the turnover I'm still listed as a moderator with moderator powers.   I've been coming to this site since 2006 (and NTCWEB since 1996), but it is incredibly hard to moderate at times or appear on here.  As it sits, I have a moderator inbox of twenty plus reports on nonsense.  People griping about pictures posted with not enough fur, or topics that they don't like, or someone was mean in a thread. 

I became a moderator as a favor to a dying man, and have simply existed here ever since.  If I could relinquish my moderator badge, I would.  But then again, there's nobody above me, puppet master to this whole show.....who will answer or bother with me.   

 

I will try to be on here more in the meantime and if someone is harassing you in your private message inbox, let me know and I will handle it. 

 

PT

[furs limited]

Thank you for all that you do and for your patience.

[Fox]

2 hours ago, punisherthunder said:

I have never met Neoncossak in any capacity.   I do not know who he or she is, where they are from; simply nothing.  I have sent countless messages the past couple years, just over and over and over and over again, trying to get them to reply to any of them in the slightest.   Neoncossak has never ever once replied to a single message.....ever.  

He/she has an instagram account by the same name. I was able to exchange a message or two quite a while ago when I found this out. But it was just a confirmation that it was indeed the same person that took over this site. I doubt it's worth it to look up that account on IG since it has no content, and he/she seems similarly inactive there.

Indeed, this person seems to have exactly no interest in doing anything with this site. Why he/she took it over is beyond me.

Edited August 22, 2021 by Fox

[FurCouple81]

Instead of blaming and starting with uncomfortable topics we could focus on the nice side of the story. Thanks for joining @Debrotica and sharing your love of fur with the community. We are a fur loving couple and enjoy furs together. She as much as he. I guess most men just have to search more and are desperate to find a fur loving partner. And more over men like to believe that the internet is the place to freely express themselves without boundries.

We are sexual beings and love the beautiful things in life. And fur is clearly something beautiful for us - and we share some of this love in a more intimate way on some platforms. But we restrain from being "in anyones FACE". Maybe thats a manner thing?

Welcome to the community, thanks for sharing and we wish you a lot of fun. Use the technology to get rid of people that are putting you off.

Best regards ❤️

[Stormie Weather]

Hello, I am a woman on this site, but I don’t post often. I’m married, so no PMs please.

 

So far I gave 3 full length minks, 2 knee length minks, a mink bomber jacket/vest, a silver fox jacket, an assortment of mink hats, a silver fox hat, a raccoon hat, and I just bought a muskrat hat.

I would love to find an affordable fur coat for my husband.

[FullLengthFox]

10 hours ago, Stormie Weather said:

Hello, I am a woman on this site, but I don’t post often. I’m married, so no PMs please.

 

So far I gave 3 full length minks, 2 knee length minks, a mink bomber jacket/vest, a silver fox jacket, an assortment of mink hats, a silver fox hat, a raccoon hat, and I just bought a muskrat hat.

I would love to find an affordable fur coat for my husband.

I bought most fur coats on EBay, you can find used fur coats at very reasonable prices. Also on liveauctioneers.com you can find great deals. 

I would be interested in the story behind it. Is there any particular fur type you are looking for? Would you find it exciting to see him wear furs? Does he like furs like you do? Would you like to be both in furs to share your love for furs? 

[Stormie Weather]

On 12/18/2021 at 4:43 AM, FullLengthFox said:

I bought most fur coats on EBay, you can find used fur coats at very reasonable prices. Also on liveauctioneers.com you can find great deals. 

I would be interested in the story behind it. Is there any particular fur type you are looking for? Would you find it exciting to see him wear furs? Does he like furs like you do? Would you like to be both in furs to share your love for furs? 

Hi! I was thinking maybe beaver, mink or fisher. He likes the look of fur as a fashion statement , as do I. I wouldn’t necessarily be exciting for me. When we go out during the winter mo ths, I would like for both of us to be warm, and stylish.  He has a faux fur jacket, which I absolutely hate. I only like real fur.

[FullLengthFox]

13 hours ago, Stormie Weather said:

Hi! I was thinking maybe beaver, mink or fisher. He likes the look of fur as a fashion statement , as do I. I wouldn’t necessarily be exciting for me. When we go out during the winter mo ths, I would like for both of us to be warm, and stylish.  He has a faux fur jacket, which I absolutely hate. I only like real fur.

Ok, so you are looking for a men's fur at reasonable prices. I don't have much experience in that domain, but the sites I mentioned would be the first places I would look. I agree it must be great to go out both wearing furs. 

[gai]

On 12/17/2021 at 4:21 PM, Stormie Weather said:

Hello, I am a woman on this site, but I don’t post often. I’m married, so no PMs please.

 

So far I gave 3 full length minks, 2 knee length minks, a mink bomber jacket/vest, a silver fox jacket, an assortment of mink hats, a silver fox hat, a raccoon hat, and I just bought a muskrat hat.

I would love to find an affordable fur coat for my husband.

Hi, that's great that you both want to wear furs together! Yeah ebay would be great to find them. He can wear women's furs that look androgynous and are big enough to fit him. Seems you're not much of a fan of wearing fox?

[Stormie Weather]

On 1/14/2022 at 1:47 PM, gai said:

Hi, that's great that you both want to wear furs together! Yeah ebay would be great to find them. He can wear women's furs that look androgynous and are big enough to fit him. Seems you're not much of a fan of wearing fox?

I am a tremendous fan of fox. Mink is just easier to find at low prices. I would love to have a knee length or full length fox coat. I just haven’t found the right coat yet.

[FullLengthFox]

1 hour ago, Stormie Weather said:

I am a tremendous fan of fox. Mink is just easier to find at low prices. I would love to have a knee length or full length fox coat. I just haven’t found the right coat yet.

I share your passion for fox fur. Even though I know that men's fox fur coats are quite common, personally I find it more of a feminine type of fur, but this may not be the case for you. An advantage of fox fur is that there are also unisex fur coats which either you or your husband could wear. 

And how about raccoon fur? This is generally conceived as a more masculine type of fur and it is less expensive than fox. 

[CoyoteFox]

Dear Women of the Fur Fetish,

I'm truly sorry that you've all had this bad experience... I'm not going to defend what these men did, but I think I can explain this behavior without just blaming porn, online dating, and the internet.

From the male perspective, you're an impossibly rare female who shares our sexual attraction to fur... I'm not suggesting you see these advances as compliments, but most of these straight men have literally shamed themselves for years over their fur fetish (and some for a lot longer pre-internet). They've likely had a mother who told them they were strange or not right for masturbating with fur, and they probably never thought a woman would understand and not make fun of them.

So any female profile on this forum exists as the antidote to that suffering... You represent the possibility of fulfilling their sexual identity and fantasies... That's a big deal for men... Maybe it's a 25% slice of their life that is unfulfilled as a result of not having someone to shares and understands them authentically and sexually... I know it is like that for me.

I'm looking to meet and attract women on this forum, and it's discouraging to hear that that's being ruined by a few members as there aren't many other places like this elsewhere on the internet!

I think the couples on this platform are the luckiest people on the planet, and I'm sure they are grateful every single day.

Again, not defending any harassment... A lot of awful things can be said when sexual excitement and anonymity mix online, but I can guarantee that---like online dating---you're either witnessing self-sabotage or these men believe they can immediately engage with you on a sexual level because they see this entire ecosystem as highly-sexualized in the first place... This is a fetish website after all.

Would I get sick of constant sexual advances from women if I was outnumbered like that and a "unicorn" on a fur fetish site?  Probably over time, but I wish I had that kind of power for just one day... Ironically, what a fantasy that would be for the same men who harassed you if the roles were reversed... haha

It is disrespectful, but it comes from a place of vulnerability and desperation... I hope you'll delete them without thinking and, like @FurCouple81 said, that you find all the beauty and positivity that's on here as well!

[CoyoteMink]

Hi.  I have not been visiting this site very often, so am just now seeing Debrotica's post.  I am a woman from the USA.  I absolutely love wearing my furs and do so every day when the weather is cold.  I usually wear one of my fur jackets for casual occasions and my full length Coyote for more formal times or when it is really cold.  In addition to being warm and soft, wearing fur always makes me feel more sensual.  I just love the look and feel of fur.    

I thought the comments from FurCouple81 were spot on.  Nice that you and your husband both enjoy fur.  Thank you Debrotica for asking about "other females" at this site.  

 

[minkme]

Welcome back coyotemink

[FullLengthFox]

12 hours ago, CoyoteMink said:

Hi.  I have not been visiting this site very often, so am just now seeing Debrotica's post.  I am a woman from the USA.  I absolutely love wearing my furs and do so every day when the weather is cold.  I usually wear one of my fur jackets for casual occasions and my full length Coyote for more formal times or when it is really cold.  In addition to being warm and soft, wearing fur always makes me feel more sensual.  I just love the look and feel of fur.    

I thought the comments from FurCouple81 were spot on.  Nice that you and your husband both enjoy fur.  Thank you Debrotica for asking about "other females" at this site.  

 

Hi CoyoteMink, such a pleasure to sense the love for furs in your words! There are many people / couples on this forum who share the words of FurCouple81 so if you have any bad experiences with some members here hopefully this won't put you off!